WOMEN: I want to share with you strong advice I gave to one of my current clients this week. I told her that using angry words as a way to get men’s attention is ineffective, because they simply tune her out and label her emotionally unstable. Her angry words give her even less of the attention and love she wants, because you simply cannot get love by being angry or out of control.
So I want to know, do you sometimes lose control in your relationships with men? Or perhaps you have lost control in the past. What results have you gotten from throwing anger and emotional upset at men? Do you ever get love back in return? Tell me in the comments below.
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From a man’s perspective, I can say that getting angry not only causes men to tune out but it puts a crack in the relationship and ultimately means a lost of respect and credibility ultimately ensues.
Kyle, I can see that. And I appreciate you saying so, just to prove my point. The truth is, this is the case in any relationship, not just male and female. When one person looses control of their anger, the other person just won’t trust them as much or respect them as much from that point on.