Your Job in Your Relationship is to Meet Your Partners Needs

by Relationship Coach Rinatta Paries on December 1, 2011

MEN and WOMEN in RELATIONSHIP and MARRIAGE: Your job in your relationship is to meet your partner’s needs and wants. If you can’t or don’t want to, that’s when your relationship starts breaking down. Because if your partner needs or wants something, he or she will not stop needing or wanting it just because you can’t or won’t give it.

So the question is, how can you make yourself, or better transform yourself, into the person who can and wants to meet your partner’s needs? That’s when I suggest coaching, by the way.

I want to hear what strategies you use to transform yourself so that you can give your partner what he or she wants or needs. Tell me in the comments below.

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