As you are considering what you want in 2013, take a minute to think about what you want in your relationship life.
If you are single, are you ready to finally find or attract that great, compatible partner in 2013? Are you more than ready for love? Have you been ready and waiting?
And if you are in a relationship or marriage, how’s it going? Is your relationship giving you everything you want from it? Are you ready to get the love, passion, commitment, security, peace, happiness, support and appreciation you deserve in 2013?
If you don’t already have what you want in your relationship life, then what you need is a breakthrough. What I mean is this:
Do you feel stuck or trapped by how things are? Perhaps you feel trapped in being single. You have tried all the avenues you can think of for meeting the right person, and still have not met him or her. And like many singles, you maybe decide that the problem is there’s just not enough singles in the right age range at the right location for you, and that’s all there is to it. Or perhaps you’ve decide that the kind of people you want don’t want you, etc.
See how that boxes you in, and creates a trap of a sort? Because what can you do if what you want simply does not exist, or can’t happen?
However, a part of you continues to want to find a partner. And then you are trapped in the wanting. Because you can’t stop wanting what you want, even if you try.
So now we have two traps, two boxes, which both feel bad. I have a way out for you out of these boxes, a breakthrough, which I will help you have in a minute.
But first I want to look at some boxes and traps that men and women in relationship or marriage tend to get stuck in.
First, if you are in a relationship or marriage, you tend to want one of two things from your partner. You either want more love, connection, attention and understanding, or you want to be appreciated more for the things you already give.
You can’t stop wanting these things, because these are the things we enter into a relationship for. You can no more stop wanting love and attention, or appreciation and acceptance, from your partner, then you can stop wanting food or water.
But wanting something you are not getting is again a trap, a box, you get stuck in. Because when you can’t stop wanting but are not getting what you want, you are trapped in feeling bad with seemingly no resolution.
In addition you are stuck or trapped by what your partner is doing or not doing, saying or not saying. And you may also be trapped by circumstance that are outside your control: money, kids, work, family stresses, economy, etc.
This is trap because you are stuck waiting for another person to do something, or waiting for the circumstance in his or her – or your life – to change.
It feels bad being stuck waiting for others to change.
Are you able to feel it now, the box you are in, your own particular box? Good, then you are ready for a breakthrough.
Watch this video, where I help you start to crack the box or the boxes you are in, so that you can break out and have a Breakthrough in your relationship life in the New Year.
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