Tell me what you are doing to bring a partner into your life, and I will show you where you are stopping yourself and what to do differently to attract the right partner for you.
Tell me what your new partner is saying and doing in your dating relationship, and I will show how your relationship is likely to turn out with him or her and why.
Tell me what you are doing and saying in your dating relationship, and I will show you what to do more or less of, so that you get more of what you want in your relationship.
Tell me about the conflicts and conversations you and your partner have, how you spend your time together and what is happening to your intimacy. I will show you what each of you needs and how to give it to each other, so that instead of conflict or distance you get love, passion and connection.
Tell me about the ex-partner you cannot let go of, and I will show you why you are stuck and what to do to finally set yourself emotionally free.
I show my clients their relationship dynamics and provide concrete steps to improve their relationship situation again and again, with every client. My clients repeatedly tell me that I am right about what is happening in their relationships. Am I psychic? Perhaps, but that is not why I am able to do the above.
I am able to predict what is happening with people and their relationships because relationships are not the mystery they seem to be. Men and women have a predictable set of needs they try to get met in a relationship. On top of that, internal logic and motivation govern every person’s behavior. When you understand these needs and logic, you can predict how people will behave in dating, relationship, marriage, or during a breakup or divorce. And you can clearly see what needs to be done differently to create a better relationship outcome.
I can look at a relationship or a person in a relationship the way a mechanic would look at a car. When I work with clients I teach them some of these skills, so that they are able to understand their partner or their potential partner, and the relationship dynamic being played out. I then show them what to do to create the relationship they want.
This may sound unromantic, but it is not. My work with clients is informed with a deeply held belief that love is precious. Because love is precious you have to be smart as to how you go about the romantic relationship in your life. The smarter and more informed you are, the more success you will have.
Love is precious, as are you. Learn to understand relationships, so that you can give yourself the kind of relationship you want and deserve. You can learn about relationships by working with me as your coach or you can start by picking up a digital copy of The 8+ Stages of Relationships Guide.
My clients do not get into relationships hoping their partner is a good fit, but rather date smart to attract a partner who is a good fit. They don’t mold themselves to their relationship partner, hoping that they are liked, but rather learn how to be themselves as a way of creating a great relationship. My clients stop bemoaning what is wrong in their relationship or marriage and instead take proactive steps to shift the situation into a more positive, loving, fulfilling-to-both-partners footing. They don’t waste time wondering if their relationship will work out, but rather take smart, strategic steps to ensure it will.
I would love to touch as many relationships as possible, save as many marriages as I can, and help every single person attract their right mate, but I can’t work with everyone. This is why I wrote a guide to how relationships work. In this guide I included the most relevant information about relationship stages, which is one important way I teach clients to understand relationships. This guide was written for you, so that you can become more aware of what is happening in relationships, and so that they stop being a mystery to you.
Love is precious, as are you. Learn to understand relationships, so that you can give yourself the kind of relationship you want and deserve. You can learn about relationships by working with me as your coach or you can start by picking up a digital copy of The 8+ Stages of Relationships Guide.
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